Could you not do the above but she flys out to you every so often so she doesnt lose her job and so you dont have to go months without seeing each other, although a downside is the cost and whether she could be arsed do all the traveling. There is Skype and all that sorta shizz now so it wouldn't be that hard to see each other. The main thing that made me want to comment on this is the job you'll be getting, playing old skool and cheesy hits would be coooooooooooooooooooooool, there's a club/bar close to where i live that plays this sorta stuff plus some cheesy mashups of old and new tunes and its always full. Plus it sells crazy hats and that sorta stuff! amazing!